
Unlock the bedtime mysteries of that evening drink! Discover how alcohol might be sabotaging your sleep in our latest blog.
Although it isn’t a treatment for alcohol use disorder (AUD), the Reframe app can help you cut back on drinking gradually, with the science-backed knowledge to empower you 100% of the way. Our proven program has helped millions of people around the world drink less and live more. And we want to help you get there, too!
The Reframe app equips you with the knowledge and skills you need to not only survive drinking less, but to thrive while you navigate the journey. Our daily research-backed readings teach you the neuroscience of alcohol, and our in-app Toolkit provides the resources and activities you need to navigate each challenge.
You’ll meet millions of fellow Reframers in our 24/7 Forum chat and daily Zoom check-in meetings. Receive encouragement from people worldwide who know exactly what you’re going through! You’ll also have the opportunity to connect with our licensed Reframe coaches for more personalized guidance.
Plus, we’re always introducing new features to optimize your in-app experience. We recently launched our in-app chatbot, Melody, powered by the world’s most powerful AI technology. Melody is here to help as you adjust to a life with less (or no) alcohol.
And that’s not all! Every month, we launch fun challenges, like Dry/Damp January, Mental Health May, and Outdoorsy June. You won’t want to miss out on the chance to participate alongside fellow Reframers (or solo if that’s more your thing!).
The Reframe app is free for 7 days, so you don’t have anything to lose by trying it. Are you ready to feel empowered and discover life beyond alcohol? Then download our app today!
It's been a long day, and you're ready for a good night's sleep. You slide into your comfy pajamas, put on a calming playlist, and turn down the lights. Maybe a little nightcap will help lull you into dreamland. Sounds harmless, right?
Think again. If you've ever felt groggy or exhausted after a night of drinking, it's no coincidence. Despite its sedative effects, alcohol might be the uninvited guest at your sleep party. What’s the connection between alcohol and sleep? And how does alcohol affect sleep? Let's discuss the many sneaky ways alcohol messes with your beauty rest.

Many people believe that alcohol helps them fall asleep more quickly — and they're not entirely wrong. Does alcohol make you sleepy? Sure. Alcohol does increase the production of adenosine, a chemical that makes us feel drowsy. But does alcohol help you sleep? Well, here's the catch: while we might fall asleep faster, the quality of our sleep takes a nosedive. Let’s dive into the science behind it!
Our sleep isn't just a big block of unconsciousness; it’s a complex cycle with multiple stages.
And booze? Putting it simply, alcohol disrupts sleep. Sure, drinking before bedtime might make us feel sleepy; we drift off quickly. So far, so good, right? Well, not exactly. Alcohol can artificially speed up the process of reaching the deep sleep stages. This sounds great —more time in restorative sleep! — but there’s a catch.
After a few hours, alcohol starts to wear off, interrupting REM sleep by reducing its duration and delaying its onset. Less REM means we might wake up feeling tired, even if we’ve been in bed for 8 hours.
This is a problem because REM sleep is vital for cognitive functions, mood, and overall restfulness. We might experience fewer dreams, and even if we sleep for a standard 7-8 hours, we might wake up feeling like we’ve just had a nap instead of a full night's rest.
One or two nights of reduced REM sleep sounds bad enough — but there’s more. After nights of drinking and suppressed REM sleep, we might experience what’s known as REM rebound: the brain tries to catch up on missed REM sleep. This leads to longer, more frequent REM stages. It might sound cool — more dreams, right? But in reality, it can lead to sleep disturbances, nightmares, or waking up feeling groggy.
You're deep in slumber, and then suddenly ... you're not. Alcohol can cause frequent awakenings during the night, even if we don't remember them. No, it's not the neighbor's dog barking or a car alarm outside — it's actually the sneaky effects of alcohol stirring us from our slumber and preventing us from entering the deeper, more restorative stages of sleep. Here’s what happens:
Melatonin, the "sleep hormone," plays a significant role in regulating our sleep-wake cycle. Alcohol can disrupt our melatonin production. This means even if we’re tired and want to get back to sleep, our body might not have enough of this sleepy hormone to do the trick.
Do you need to visit the bathroom more frequently after drinking? Alcohol is a diuretic, increasing our bathroom trips and causing fragmented sleep. Drinking before bed doesn’t only disrupt our sweet slumber — it can make us dehydrated (which also makes us tired).
Here's a deeper dive into what's happening when alcohol messes with the body's water supply:
Dehydration doesn’t stop at thirst! It compounds many of the symptoms caused by a bad night’s sleep:
Here’s a fun (or not so fun) fact: dehydration can also disrupt our sleep! Yep, it's a two-way street. Thirst can wake us up, adding to the list of reasons alcohol impacts your night.

Ever have that warm, flushed feeling after sipping on a drink? It's almost like an internal heater has been switched on. While it might feel momentarily cozy, booze can mess with our body's natural ability to regulate temperature while we sleep, leading to night sweats or leaving us cold in the middle of the night.
Here’s why:
Nope, it's not your imagination — alcohol can exacerbate snoring or even obstructive sleep apnea. Alcohol relaxes the muscles of the throat, which increases the risk of airway blockage. This means interrupted sleep and less oxygen to our brain.
The result? A less than restful night for both you and anyone sharing your sleeping space.
Snoring isn’t just an isolated event. For some, it can be a sign of a condition called obstructive sleep apnea, in which breathing temporarily stops during sleep. Consuming alcohol can exacerbate this condition, leading to longer and more frequent pauses in breathing. This disrupts sleep and has other health implications (including increased risks of type 2 diabetes, stroke, and heart attack).
No one enjoys a hangover. The headache, nausea, and grogginess can make the day an uphill battle. This is largely due to the disturbance in sleep patterns caused by alcohol. Let’s explore what's really happening the morning after the night before.
What about the big picture — past the immediate effects and the hangover? Regular consumption of alcohol before bedtime can lead to insomnia:
By being aware of the long-term picture, we can make informed choices that keep our nights peaceful and your days vibrant. After all, life's a marathon, not a sprint, and every good choice adds up for the journey ahead! Here are some tips to start with:
Sleep is a cornerstone of our well-being. And while that occasional drink might seem like it’s helping you drift off, it’s pulling the strings behind the scenes in disruptive ways. Prioritizing quality sleep over that glass of wine or beer can make a world of difference in how you feel the next day.
It's been a long day, and you're ready for a good night's sleep. You slide into your comfy pajamas, put on a calming playlist, and turn down the lights. Maybe a little nightcap will help lull you into dreamland. Sounds harmless, right?
Think again. If you've ever felt groggy or exhausted after a night of drinking, it's no coincidence. Despite its sedative effects, alcohol might be the uninvited guest at your sleep party. What’s the connection between alcohol and sleep? And how does alcohol affect sleep? Let's discuss the many sneaky ways alcohol messes with your beauty rest.

Many people believe that alcohol helps them fall asleep more quickly — and they're not entirely wrong. Does alcohol make you sleepy? Sure. Alcohol does increase the production of adenosine, a chemical that makes us feel drowsy. But does alcohol help you sleep? Well, here's the catch: while we might fall asleep faster, the quality of our sleep takes a nosedive. Let’s dive into the science behind it!
Our sleep isn't just a big block of unconsciousness; it’s a complex cycle with multiple stages.
And booze? Putting it simply, alcohol disrupts sleep. Sure, drinking before bedtime might make us feel sleepy; we drift off quickly. So far, so good, right? Well, not exactly. Alcohol can artificially speed up the process of reaching the deep sleep stages. This sounds great —more time in restorative sleep! — but there’s a catch.
After a few hours, alcohol starts to wear off, interrupting REM sleep by reducing its duration and delaying its onset. Less REM means we might wake up feeling tired, even if we’ve been in bed for 8 hours.
This is a problem because REM sleep is vital for cognitive functions, mood, and overall restfulness. We might experience fewer dreams, and even if we sleep for a standard 7-8 hours, we might wake up feeling like we’ve just had a nap instead of a full night's rest.
One or two nights of reduced REM sleep sounds bad enough — but there’s more. After nights of drinking and suppressed REM sleep, we might experience what’s known as REM rebound: the brain tries to catch up on missed REM sleep. This leads to longer, more frequent REM stages. It might sound cool — more dreams, right? But in reality, it can lead to sleep disturbances, nightmares, or waking up feeling groggy.
You're deep in slumber, and then suddenly ... you're not. Alcohol can cause frequent awakenings during the night, even if we don't remember them. No, it's not the neighbor's dog barking or a car alarm outside — it's actually the sneaky effects of alcohol stirring us from our slumber and preventing us from entering the deeper, more restorative stages of sleep. Here’s what happens:
Melatonin, the "sleep hormone," plays a significant role in regulating our sleep-wake cycle. Alcohol can disrupt our melatonin production. This means even if we’re tired and want to get back to sleep, our body might not have enough of this sleepy hormone to do the trick.
Do you need to visit the bathroom more frequently after drinking? Alcohol is a diuretic, increasing our bathroom trips and causing fragmented sleep. Drinking before bed doesn’t only disrupt our sweet slumber — it can make us dehydrated (which also makes us tired).
Here's a deeper dive into what's happening when alcohol messes with the body's water supply:
Dehydration doesn’t stop at thirst! It compounds many of the symptoms caused by a bad night’s sleep:
Here’s a fun (or not so fun) fact: dehydration can also disrupt our sleep! Yep, it's a two-way street. Thirst can wake us up, adding to the list of reasons alcohol impacts your night.

Ever have that warm, flushed feeling after sipping on a drink? It's almost like an internal heater has been switched on. While it might feel momentarily cozy, booze can mess with our body's natural ability to regulate temperature while we sleep, leading to night sweats or leaving us cold in the middle of the night.
Here’s why:
Nope, it's not your imagination — alcohol can exacerbate snoring or even obstructive sleep apnea. Alcohol relaxes the muscles of the throat, which increases the risk of airway blockage. This means interrupted sleep and less oxygen to our brain.
The result? A less than restful night for both you and anyone sharing your sleeping space.
Snoring isn’t just an isolated event. For some, it can be a sign of a condition called obstructive sleep apnea, in which breathing temporarily stops during sleep. Consuming alcohol can exacerbate this condition, leading to longer and more frequent pauses in breathing. This disrupts sleep and has other health implications (including increased risks of type 2 diabetes, stroke, and heart attack).
No one enjoys a hangover. The headache, nausea, and grogginess can make the day an uphill battle. This is largely due to the disturbance in sleep patterns caused by alcohol. Let’s explore what's really happening the morning after the night before.
What about the big picture — past the immediate effects and the hangover? Regular consumption of alcohol before bedtime can lead to insomnia:
By being aware of the long-term picture, we can make informed choices that keep our nights peaceful and your days vibrant. After all, life's a marathon, not a sprint, and every good choice adds up for the journey ahead! Here are some tips to start with:
Sleep is a cornerstone of our well-being. And while that occasional drink might seem like it’s helping you drift off, it’s pulling the strings behind the scenes in disruptive ways. Prioritizing quality sleep over that glass of wine or beer can make a world of difference in how you feel the next day.

Unwind without the wine! Discover science-backed ways to destress and embrace a vibrant, alcohol-free life in our latest blog.
Although it isn’t a treatment for alcohol use disorder (AUD), the Reframe app can help you cut back on drinking gradually, with the science-backed knowledge to empower you 100% of the way. Our proven program has helped millions of people around the world drink less and live more. And we want to help you get there, too!
The Reframe app equips you with the knowledge and skills you need to not only survive drinking less, but to thrive while you navigate the journey. Our daily research-backed readings teach you the neuroscience of alcohol, and our in-app Toolkit provides the resources and activities you need to navigate each challenge.
You’ll meet millions of fellow Reframers in our 24/7 Forum chat and daily Zoom check-in meetings. Receive encouragement from people worldwide who know exactly what you’re going through! You’ll also have the opportunity to connect with our licensed Reframe coaches for more personalized guidance.
Plus, we’re always introducing new features to optimize your in-app experience. We recently launched our in-app chatbot, Melody, powered by the world’s most powerful AI technology. Melody is here to help as you adjust to a life with less (or no) alcohol.
And that’s not all! Every month, we launch fun challenges, like Dry/Damp January, Mental Health May, and Outdoorsy June. You won’t want to miss out on the chance to participate alongside fellow Reframers (or solo if that’s more your thing!).
The Reframe app is free for 7 days, so you don’t have anything to lose by trying it. Are you ready to feel empowered and discover life beyond alcohol? Then download our app through the App Store or Google Play today!
In the words of actress Lily Tomlin, “Reality is the leading cause of stress among those in touch with it.” Stress is simply a part of life — there’s no way around it.
We've all had those days when we feel the weight of the world on our shoulders, and reaching for a glass of wine or beer seems like the quickest way to unwind. But what if there’s another option? Let’s explore five science-backed ways to deal with stress without booze!
Why do we so often feel the urge to drink after a stressful day? When we consume alcohol, it may initially feel like a great stress-reliever. We might feel relaxed or even euphoric, and our inhibitions might decrease.
The reason is neurochemical: alcohol boosts dopamine levels in the brain, along with sending a floor of other feel-good chemicals through our bodies and numbing anxiety and pain by acting as a central nervous system depressant.
However, this booze/relaxation relationship isn't as straightforward as it seems. While booze might offer a temporary escape, in the long run, it can actually amplify stress and anxiety. Here’s why relying on alcohol to relieve stress becomes counterproductive:
When tackling stress in a healthy way, two basic types of approach can help. The first is internal; it involves tapping into our own resources through practices such as deep breathing, mindfulness, or sound healing meditations. In the words of poet Suzy Kassem, “First apply within / To discover the world / within you.”
Other methods call for rearranging the external landscape of our lives to make room for stress-busting pursuits and experiences. The time-tested favorites, exercise and social activities, are both great ones to try.
Let’s explore the five ways to break the stress cycle in more detail!
Ever felt that instant relief when you take a deep breath? Deep breathing exercises have been scientifically proven to activate the body's natural relaxation response by increasing the supply of oxygen to the brain and stimulating the parasympathetic nervous system.
Sometimes called diaphragmatic breathing or belly breathing, deep breathing is more than just a simple inhale-exhale routine — it’s a bridge between the body and mind. When we breathe deeply, we’re using our diaphragm, a dome-shaped muscle at the base of the lungs. Unlike shallow chest breathing, deep breathing encourages full oxygen exchange, which helps rid the body of carbon dioxide and other waste products.
As we adopt this style of breathing, several science-backed benefits emerge:
While it's a great tool for stress relief, deep breathing offers other benefits, too:
It's surprisingly easy to weave deep breathing into your daily routine:
More than a health fad, meditation has ancient roots and is backed by modern science. In our hectic lives, it can be a lifeline that allows us to tap into the power of simply observing life around us without getting caught up in mental “chatter” or external stimuli.
Meditation isn't one-size-fits-all. Various styles cater to different needs:
Decades of research affirm the transformative potential of meditation. Here are some of the science-backed benefits:
Starting a meditation practice is simpler than you think:
From the whisper of leaves rustling in the breeze to the soothing hum of ocean waves, sound has a profound impact on our psyche. But did you know that sound can be intentionally harnessed to foster healing and well-being? Sound healing is an age-old practice now gaining momentum in wellness circles.
Ever felt the goosebumps when listening to a beautiful piece of music? That’s sound healing in action! This ancient practice uses instruments or vocals to balance our energy — and there’s science behind it!
Sound healing is grounded in the principle that everything in the universe, including our body, vibrates at specific frequencies. While stress, trauma, and illness can disrupt our natural vibrational balance, sound healing aims to realign these frequencies and restore harmony.
There are diverse sound healing tools and practices that incorporate the science of frequencies:

“Exercise” might conjure images of sweaty gym sessions, heavy weights, or marathon runs. But you don’t have to run a marathon! Even a brisk walk around the block can do wonders — and it’s also backed by science.
Here’s what happens in the body and brain when you get moving:
You don't need a gym membership to reap the benefits of physical activity. All kinds of activities will do the trick:
To truly harness the benefits of exercise, consistency is essential:
In an age when screens often replace face-to-face interaction and solitude sometimes feels more appealing than socializing, it’s easy to forget the power of human connection. But at our core, we are inherently social beings — even for introverts, connecting with people we trust can help ease stress. It’s another science-backed solution for many of life's troubles.
Behind every heartfelt chat, every shared laugh, and even every good cry session, there are neurochemical reactions taking place.
Building and maintaining genuine connections isn't about quantity — it’s about quality. Embracing authentic connections involves a few key practices:
Based on the 5 approaches we discussed, here are some easy ways to start incorporating booze-free stress busting activities into your life:
In the words of Frank Herbert, “The mind can go either direction under stress — toward positive or toward negative: on or off. Think of it as a spectrum whose extremes are unconsciousness at the negative end and hyperconsciousness at the positive end. The way the mind will lean under stress is strongly influenced by training.”
In the grand scheme of things, stress is inevitable. But with these tools in your arsenal, you can navigate life's challenges without leaning on booze. Remember, every moment is an opportunity to choose wellness!
In the words of actress Lily Tomlin, “Reality is the leading cause of stress among those in touch with it.” Stress is simply a part of life — there’s no way around it.
We've all had those days when we feel the weight of the world on our shoulders, and reaching for a glass of wine or beer seems like the quickest way to unwind. But what if there’s another option? Let’s explore five science-backed ways to deal with stress without booze!
Why do we so often feel the urge to drink after a stressful day? When we consume alcohol, it may initially feel like a great stress-reliever. We might feel relaxed or even euphoric, and our inhibitions might decrease.
The reason is neurochemical: alcohol boosts dopamine levels in the brain, along with sending a floor of other feel-good chemicals through our bodies and numbing anxiety and pain by acting as a central nervous system depressant.
However, this booze/relaxation relationship isn't as straightforward as it seems. While booze might offer a temporary escape, in the long run, it can actually amplify stress and anxiety. Here’s why relying on alcohol to relieve stress becomes counterproductive:
When tackling stress in a healthy way, two basic types of approach can help. The first is internal; it involves tapping into our own resources through practices such as deep breathing, mindfulness, or sound healing meditations. In the words of poet Suzy Kassem, “First apply within / To discover the world / within you.”
Other methods call for rearranging the external landscape of our lives to make room for stress-busting pursuits and experiences. The time-tested favorites, exercise and social activities, are both great ones to try.
Let’s explore the five ways to break the stress cycle in more detail!
Ever felt that instant relief when you take a deep breath? Deep breathing exercises have been scientifically proven to activate the body's natural relaxation response by increasing the supply of oxygen to the brain and stimulating the parasympathetic nervous system.
Sometimes called diaphragmatic breathing or belly breathing, deep breathing is more than just a simple inhale-exhale routine — it’s a bridge between the body and mind. When we breathe deeply, we’re using our diaphragm, a dome-shaped muscle at the base of the lungs. Unlike shallow chest breathing, deep breathing encourages full oxygen exchange, which helps rid the body of carbon dioxide and other waste products.
As we adopt this style of breathing, several science-backed benefits emerge:
While it's a great tool for stress relief, deep breathing offers other benefits, too:
It's surprisingly easy to weave deep breathing into your daily routine:
More than a health fad, meditation has ancient roots and is backed by modern science. In our hectic lives, it can be a lifeline that allows us to tap into the power of simply observing life around us without getting caught up in mental “chatter” or external stimuli.
Meditation isn't one-size-fits-all. Various styles cater to different needs:
Decades of research affirm the transformative potential of meditation. Here are some of the science-backed benefits:
Starting a meditation practice is simpler than you think:
From the whisper of leaves rustling in the breeze to the soothing hum of ocean waves, sound has a profound impact on our psyche. But did you know that sound can be intentionally harnessed to foster healing and well-being? Sound healing is an age-old practice now gaining momentum in wellness circles.
Ever felt the goosebumps when listening to a beautiful piece of music? That’s sound healing in action! This ancient practice uses instruments or vocals to balance our energy — and there’s science behind it!
Sound healing is grounded in the principle that everything in the universe, including our body, vibrates at specific frequencies. While stress, trauma, and illness can disrupt our natural vibrational balance, sound healing aims to realign these frequencies and restore harmony.
There are diverse sound healing tools and practices that incorporate the science of frequencies:

“Exercise” might conjure images of sweaty gym sessions, heavy weights, or marathon runs. But you don’t have to run a marathon! Even a brisk walk around the block can do wonders — and it’s also backed by science.
Here’s what happens in the body and brain when you get moving:
You don't need a gym membership to reap the benefits of physical activity. All kinds of activities will do the trick:
To truly harness the benefits of exercise, consistency is essential:
In an age when screens often replace face-to-face interaction and solitude sometimes feels more appealing than socializing, it’s easy to forget the power of human connection. But at our core, we are inherently social beings — even for introverts, connecting with people we trust can help ease stress. It’s another science-backed solution for many of life's troubles.
Behind every heartfelt chat, every shared laugh, and even every good cry session, there are neurochemical reactions taking place.
Building and maintaining genuine connections isn't about quantity — it’s about quality. Embracing authentic connections involves a few key practices:
Based on the 5 approaches we discussed, here are some easy ways to start incorporating booze-free stress busting activities into your life:
In the words of Frank Herbert, “The mind can go either direction under stress — toward positive or toward negative: on or off. Think of it as a spectrum whose extremes are unconsciousness at the negative end and hyperconsciousness at the positive end. The way the mind will lean under stress is strongly influenced by training.”
In the grand scheme of things, stress is inevitable. But with these tools in your arsenal, you can navigate life's challenges without leaning on booze. Remember, every moment is an opportunity to choose wellness!

Let’s unravel the mystery of why sadness leads us to crave alcohol. Explore brain science, bust alcohol myths, and embrace healthier ways to handle our blues!
Although it isn’t a treatment for alcohol use disorder (AUD), the Reframe app can help you cut back on drinking gradually, with the science-backed knowledge to empower you 100% of the way. Our proven program has helped millions of people around the world drink less and live more. And we want to help you get there, too!
The Reframe app equips you with the knowledge and skills you need to not only survive drinking less, but to thrive while you navigate the journey. Our daily research-backed readings teach you the neuroscience of alcohol, and our in-app Toolkit provides the resources and activities you need to navigate each challenge.
You’ll meet millions of fellow Reframers in our 24/7 Forum chat and daily Zoom check-in meetings. Receive encouragement from people worldwide who know exactly what you’re going through! You’ll also have the opportunity to connect with our licensed Reframe coaches for more personalized guidance.
Plus, we’re always introducing new features to optimize your in-app experience. We recently launched our in-app chatbot, Melody, powered by the world’s most powerful AI technology. Melody is here to help as you adjust to a life with less (or no) alcohol.
And that’s not all! Every month, we launch fun challenges, like Dry/Damp January, Mental Health May, and Outdoorsy June. You won’t want to miss out on the chance to participate alongside fellow Reframers (or solo if that’s more your thing!).
The Reframe app is free for 7 days, so you don’t have anything to lose by trying it. Are you ready to feel empowered and discover life beyond alcohol? Then download our app through the App Store or Google Play today!
Movies and TV shows often feature characters drowning their sorrows in the bottle. The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel starts off with Midge going on a massive drinking binge after her husband leaves her. Ironically, this lands her in a comedy club and launches her career — but remember, that’s fiction.
I’m real life, booze rarely makes a sad situation better. So why are we drawn to it when we’re feeling blue? Let’s explore the connection between sadness and alcohol cravings.
It sounds so simple, doesn’t it? “I’m sad.” But despite its apparent simplicity, sadness is a complex emotion. Understanding how it works might not alleviate the feeling, but it can provide insights into how we respond to it. Here's what happens in our brain when we feel sad.
When sadness kicks in, the brain tries to get rid of it and nudges us towards things that might ease discomfort. Alcohol might provide a temporary illusion of relief, but that's all it is, an illusion! At best, it’s only a Band-Aid solution that doesn’t address the actual source of sadness. Here is what’s behind the illusion:

Alcohol doesn't mend a broken heart or solve any problems. It might make us feel better momentarily, but it soon wears off, often leaving us worse off than before. Here’s why:
Things get even more messy when we throw clinical depression into the mix. The neurotransmitter imbalance created by alcohol has an even more drastic effect in people with this condition, since lower serotonin levels already come with the territory.
Alcohol can also interfere with the effectiveness of antidepressant drugs and might even lead to dangerous side effects. Therapy — another way of treating depression — can also become less effective, since it requires introspection and clear thinking, both of which can be clouded by alcohol.
Chronic alcohol consumption can also lead to a breakdown in personal relationships, job losses, or other significant life challenges. These situations can further contribute to feelings of worthlessness or hopelessness often associated with clinical depression.
The next time sadness knocks on your door and brings along that pesky craving for alcohol, remember, you've got the knowledge, the tools, and the strength to say "Not today!" It's a journey, and every step away from that bottle is a step towards a happier, healthier you. You've got this!
Movies and TV shows often feature characters drowning their sorrows in the bottle. The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel starts off with Midge going on a massive drinking binge after her husband leaves her. Ironically, this lands her in a comedy club and launches her career — but remember, that’s fiction.
I’m real life, booze rarely makes a sad situation better. So why are we drawn to it when we’re feeling blue? Let’s explore the connection between sadness and alcohol cravings.
It sounds so simple, doesn’t it? “I’m sad.” But despite its apparent simplicity, sadness is a complex emotion. Understanding how it works might not alleviate the feeling, but it can provide insights into how we respond to it. Here's what happens in our brain when we feel sad.
When sadness kicks in, the brain tries to get rid of it and nudges us towards things that might ease discomfort. Alcohol might provide a temporary illusion of relief, but that's all it is, an illusion! At best, it’s only a Band-Aid solution that doesn’t address the actual source of sadness. Here is what’s behind the illusion:

Alcohol doesn't mend a broken heart or solve any problems. It might make us feel better momentarily, but it soon wears off, often leaving us worse off than before. Here’s why:
Things get even more messy when we throw clinical depression into the mix. The neurotransmitter imbalance created by alcohol has an even more drastic effect in people with this condition, since lower serotonin levels already come with the territory.
Alcohol can also interfere with the effectiveness of antidepressant drugs and might even lead to dangerous side effects. Therapy — another way of treating depression — can also become less effective, since it requires introspection and clear thinking, both of which can be clouded by alcohol.
Chronic alcohol consumption can also lead to a breakdown in personal relationships, job losses, or other significant life challenges. These situations can further contribute to feelings of worthlessness or hopelessness often associated with clinical depression.
The next time sadness knocks on your door and brings along that pesky craving for alcohol, remember, you've got the knowledge, the tools, and the strength to say "Not today!" It's a journey, and every step away from that bottle is a step towards a happier, healthier you. You've got this!