Drinking With Friends: How To Avoid Peer Pressure When You Cut Back
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Alcohol often finds its way into the picture when we’re painting the town red with our pals. But what happens when we decide to cut back on the booze, or maybe quit entirely? It's no easy feat, especially when faced with social situations involving alcohol. Here's a bit of encouragement, some scientific insight, and a few tricks of the trade to help you stay on your path, even when the party's in full swing.
To start, it’s worth acknowledging that peer pressure is very real. Contrary to popular belief, peer pressure isn't just a teenage phenomenon. As a 2020 BMC Public Health study showed, it follows us into adulthood, sneakily shaping our choices and behaviors, especially when it comes to alcohol. Likewise, a 2019 survey of UK drinkers found that more than 30% of the participants reported drinking more than they intended because of pressure, and more than half wished there was less pressure around alcohol. For those of us figuring out how to control drinking without quitting, peer pressure can be a major barrier.
Just imagine: a hard day at work, a casual after-hours drink, and a colleague cheerfully insisting "One more won't hurt!" But why does this happen? Here are some of the most common reasons people tend to experience peer pressure around alcohol:
So, how do we arm ourselves against this invisible foe when we're aiming to cut back on alcohol? We certainly don’t want to avoid social gatherings entirely — that’s neither fun nor practical. If you’ve gotten to the point where you’re wondering how to cut back or stop drinking on your own, we’re here to remind you that you can still have friends even if you change your relationship with alcohol. Here are some proven strategies:
It’s vital to remember that cutting back on alcohol isn't about going from 100 to 0 instantly. It's about making conscious decisions that suit our lifestyles and our health. Studies show that gradual reductions in alcohol intake are more sustainable in the long run than abrupt changes.
As we take on this journey of reduced drinking, it’s okay to have setbacks. The point is to keep trying and to keep learning about ourselves and our patterns. Cutting back on alcohol doesn't mean we have to cut back on fun! It just means we're choosing a different way to enjoy ourselves, one that's healthier and more sustainable.
Although it isn’t a treatment for alcohol use disorder (AUD), the Reframe app can help you cut back on drinking gradually, with the science-backed knowledge to empower you 100% of the way. Our proven program has helped millions of people around the world drink less and live more. And we want to help you get there, too!
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